I have ended my contract with the UBports Foundation
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It's a sad day.
I don't know if I still stick around longer, as a jack-of-all-trades myself
Thank you for the spirit and leadership you brought to UBports. You are young and probably will drive bigger things in the future. But, I believe in you as you believed in many of us.
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First of all, thank you so much for all that you have done! We were so lucky to have you.
I hope that whatever it is you decide to do, it will give you satisfaction.
I've had some online contact with you and you've always been pleasant and a joy to talk to. You, sir, are a Good Egg.Lastly, please realise that you will always be welcomed here. So if the mood strikes you, don't be a stranger.
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Hey Dalton. Thank you so much for all your work. I already miss you. Wish you the best and hope you will find what you are looking for.
Lionel
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@unisuperbox I mirror everything said here. I totally understand. You put your heart and soul into something 24/7. There is sometimes only one outcome. Please rest up and do what is best for you. The community you have helped build will continue and reflect what you have made of it, though will be diminished without you.
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@unisuperbox
all the best, listen to your heart and take care of yourself, and thank you for everything...
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Sometimes in our lives we meet magic people that want to help others and we want to be more like them. Thank you for being an inspiration, for all your efforts and your kindness. Have some rest, we will treasure all the things you have taught us and that make our community friendly and curious
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You did great for UBports, now do great for yourself!
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Sorry to see you leave Dalton, but I am not surprised by your decision. The strain was evident on the last two Q&As.
Don't concern yourself about departing: your health is more important than a mere phone system no matter how much like wizardry it appears to me.
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"Don't worry, your grandfather died doing this work!"
That was a strange way I was greeted one even in Khartoum, Sudan, in 2010 as it was well past sunset and I was still working away on the network infrastructure at the NGO I was volunteering with. The speaker was this elderly Sudanese man who was encouraging me that I couldn't get it all done in one night, so take some rest. His words sounded funny though because my first thought was: "Huh? My grandfather didn't know anything about running CAT5!?!" but as I thought about it what he was saying was "you can't do it all, there will always be more to do than 1 person can do." In some ways that is "fatalistic thinking": will we never make it?? But it is also true.
So this is what I am acknowledging and passing on to you to, good sir:
"Don't worry, your grandfather died trying to get 20.04 out the door."
So, wishing you a good break and a re-kindling of passion. We will make it with help from the community that ebbs and flows but continues on.... it may not be as you thought it would be when you first took on the reigns as Development Manager, but you have led us a long way, and you deserve some rest and acknowledgement that your effort was so appreciated by so many.
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@unisuperbox Thanks a lot for all the fish!
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Sad about this news, I always thought you @UniSuperBox were one of the pillars of this project. However it was evident something was happening behind the scenes, because your interventions were always rare and rare. I hope you'll recover soon and health must be always in a due care, so take your time with no rush. Of course I hope you'll eventually come back, much stronger than before ;). Anyways, please consider my personal side thought: you are still young and you have had the envied position of being contracted and earn some money doing what you like doing the most (at least you always seemed so passionate about this job). I'm a chemical engineer and I find my daily job boring because there isn't creativity nor fantasy at all in what I do. In your job instead, at which you are skilled and talented without any doubt, you have the chance to count, to steering where the project is going and to put your creativity at Community service. None of you devs was ever supposed to get burning out, this is a volunteer project. Sometimes I just feel you devs want to do too much but bear in mind you don't owe anything to the Community, because you are delivering code for free and things can be moved forward at slow pace, the pace that most suits to you.
Said that, have a rest dear Dalton and see you soon -
Thanks for everything! All the best to you!
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Thank you very much, without you it would not have been the same. And now it's time to recharge your batteries.
Take care of yourself.
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@unisuperbox said in I have ended my contract with the UBports Foundation:
However, I've already stated that I experienced burnout last year. I took a week off in October to attempt to alleviate the problem. It was not enough.
Extend that to at least 2 years I would say and hopefully you will begin to feel a lot better just like I did at the time!
The fight is not over yet, but a lot of progress has been made over the years step-by-step
At this point, I think I've read every self-help book. I'm a newfound expert in getting rid of distractions, reducing stress, working intensely, being kind to myself, self-reflection, and generally being more productive or healthy.
Those books can be really good and in my case showed me how much progress I had made up to that point but please make sure to find a doctor or specialist who actually knows what he is doing and talking about!
There is a huge chance that most doctors have no idea how to help you because they don't check for signs of
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Have you read the book this guy has written ??
It's brilliant!
I wish you all the best with the recovery and hope it lasts as short as possible!
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I would prefer you did not post alternative medicine that is not only unproven, but disproven and expensive, here. Thank you for understanding.
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Thankyou for all your efforts.. Hope you find what you are looking for..Take care
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Very sad to see you go Dalton but you have made the right choice...because your body told you it was. Admirable.
One thing I found, that helped me after spending so much time in the digital world which can leave you feeling isolated and soul searching. I packed up a rucksack with camping gear and headed out into nature with friends, away from technology completely. Sit around a campfire regularly, laugh, tell stories, bond. Oh and jumping out of a plane helped immensely too
I hope to see you around here and there from time to time, but when the time is right.
Take care buddy.
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Thank you for all that you have done for our community. Make sure to take all the time you need to recharge or find a new passion alltogether.
You are the reason I stuck with UT and started developing for it. Thank you for that.
There will be a special place in the heart of the UbPorts community for you
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@unisuperbox said in I have ended my contract with the UBports Foundation:
I'm all too familiar with the speculation when a project leader resigns.
My first thoughts: he's either got a better job or he's been cancelled
From all the self-help books I've read I've learned 2 main lessons: always take responsibility for your life (i.e. don't blame others if things are not going your way) and self-love. Without responsibility you are basically giving up your freedom of choice (you become a victim) and without self-love you can't do what's best for you (e.g. would you want to harm your body by unhealthy food or behavior if you really love yourself?).
Following these rules helped me a lot and seems like you are now also acting according to them. I see a nice future ahead of youThank you for everything you've done for the community.
