@ukphil you're very welcome. I'm glad you have fixed your issues!
Yes, English is a language full of nuances and sometimes is difficult to guess the right word.
For example, when you say "you must also accept..." Is that too imposing? Sure, it doesn't sound as hard as "you have to accept also..." but maybe "you should also accept..." sounds more polite?
That's why I said it's better to be open minded and assume everybody is here to help, not to offend by default 😉